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Friday, 6 June 2025

Class Journey

When I describe myself as working class, it irritates my wife and family no end. 

“Don’t be ridiculous,” they say. “You had professional jobs in accountancy, computing, and universities. Your father employed fifteen people, and owned a four-bedroomed detached house with a double garage and garden in a nice part of town. He had a good car. You had books and music at home. How can that be working class?” 

I protest that much of that came later, but they won’t have it and excited voices are raised. They don’t like the idea that if I am working class, it might make them working class too. 

“I would not have married you if you had been working class,” my wife once said. 

No, we are not working class now. The kids were embarrassed at school to be called “posh” because they did not have particularly strong local accents. But I grew up working class. 

Like many of my age and background, especially from the North of England, I have been on a kind of class journey, and changed. It was not a deliberate or conscious change, but without it, I would not have been able to do the things I did. Class was, and to a large extent remains, a big influence on opportunity in England today. We make scores of micro-judgements about each other’s backgrounds all the time, and treat each other accordingly. It influences whether or not we are offered a particular job or promotion, or who we select as friends or partners. 

The street where we lived until I was 6, although it seemed shabbier then

It is largely the circumstances of your childhood that define you: how you lived and the friends you had. We lived in a rented two-bedroomed terraced house until I was six, and then moved up in the world to a three-bedroomed semi. My dad worked as part shot assistant, and part salesman travelling around the local villages three days a week. Some days he was not home until seven or eight. On Thursday mornings (half-day closing) he went to work in a boiler suit to clean and maintain the firm’s four vehicles, which took a lot of time in the forties and fifties. He worked on Saturdays and had only two week’s holiday a year. 

Like many ‘housewives’, my mother did not work. Ordinary jobs paid enough to bring up a family quite comfortably on one income in those days. Work was social, without the intensity it can now have. 

We then lived in one of the semi-detached houses on the left until I was 18

It might be more accurate to say we were well-brought-up working class. We did not rent a council house, and my dad was not a manual worker. He took over the business when I was 12, but we did not move to the larger house until a few months before I left school. I never really lived there. I moved on to shared houses in Leeds with ordinary lads from ordinary parts of Wakefield and Manchester. 

Let me list how the fathers of my schoolday friends earned their livings: dock worker, railway labourer, engine driver, joiner, council lorry driver, gas meter reader, clothing factory worker, scaffolder, stone mason. They were the children I mixed and played with, and was influenced by. Many lived in council or rented housing. A little above were a butcher with his own shop, a chiropodist, an electricity board clerk, and a man who selected ships’ crew, but it was a working class area in a northern working class town. We used local pronunciations such as “watter” (water), “owt” and “mowt” (anything and nothing), “whee-ere” and “thee-ere” (where and there), and “moo-ere” (more). I knew the difference, but did not mix with any children from professional families except, in my late teens, one whose parents were teachers. Some years later, I felt perfectly at home working in a canning factory. 

A few years ago, I came across an old cassette tape recorded at a friend’s house when I was around 17. We switched on the recorder and let it run: five of us I think. The accents, the bad language, how we spoke about girls at school: you would be in no doubt that we were uncouth working class. It made me so uncomfortable I threw the tape away. 

We moved to a large house in this (then) leafy part of town when I was 18

Although I soon moved to shared houses in Leeds.
The first was a wrong-way-round house, with entrance at what was built as the rear.
The front entrance was only on foot.

But I am speaking about the economic working class. There are other indicators. Culturally, we were not typical. My dad had educated interests. He read a lot, listened to the BBC Home Service (now Radio 4), and liked poetry. He was a churchgoer, and followed up the monthly Bible Readings they sent. We had encyclopaedias and books, and my dad talked to me about them, and I read them. He involved me in his Thursday jobs around the house, such as maintaining bicycles and cleaning boots, and interested me in things around town such as ships in the docks, the railways, and the shipyard. I had hobbies and used the public library a lot. I had good general knowledge. 

Mum also read a lot, and was in a drama group. Although she was clever, and could have gone to the Grammar School, she chose to stay at her village school and left at fourteen. She helped in her mother’s grocery shop until she married, where they provided tea (i.e. an evening meal) for my father’s travellers out late on their rounds. 

I think this background helped get me into the Grammar School where I had a good education and intelligent friends. The Grammar Schools were created to supply the country’s need for educated professionals: social engineering on a grand scale. It took me into the accountancy profession, and contact with privately educated colleagues and business owners. We had to get on with everyone from office and factory workers to the rich. My accent began to shift, my language became more elaborate, and I began to understand how the world worked. 

Going late to university and working in higher education around the country brought further sophistications. My accent still reveals my Yorkshire roots, and some even detect which part of Yorkshire, but it is unsettling to encounter those who never moved away, and realise just how different I am now. They often sound uneducated. 

Do genetics influence class? How did my great-grandfather lift himself from a background of agricultural labourers to become a ship’s master after running away to sea? And my grandfather successfully started his own business, and employed others. Another great-grandfather was active in the Methodist church, with wide religious knowledge. My mother’s father worked in a paper mill, but his family had (and still has) an almost innate understanding of all things mechanicals. They can mend almost anything. These things run through families for generations, although the genetic elements no doubt interact with other factors in complex ways. 

Perhaps class differences are no longer what they were, but they are still there in the background. It shows in what you do, your interests, how you spend your time, your friends, the language you use, how much wealth you have, and many other things. The private education sector perpetuates class differences by handing more opportunities to those whose families have paid the enormous fees. I don’t want to make “chip-on-the-shoulder” excuses, but my culturally rich family background is nothing compared to the advantages some have. 

I did all right in the end, and it has been mainly down to merit. Some academic achievements cannot be bought. I hope that is not being smug. Although selection was not entirely unbiased, I regret the abolition of the state Grammar Schools and the social mobility they gave to so many from ordinary backgrounds like mine. 


35 comments:

  1. Your post contains plenty of food for thought. The old question of nature vs. nurture runs through, and I believe they both play a role in what makes us the people we become as adults.
    Class is not officially mentioned in Germany, but it is very much there, and very much influences how children grow up and what opportunities they have.
    My family comes from a rather mixed background:
    Mum's parents were strictly working class, but highly intelligent nonetheless, and well read. Her mother had to leave school at 14 to work at the local shoe factory, but she had a knack for languages (which I believe I have inherited) and felt entirely at home as the center of attention (e.g. on stage at school plays etc.), which I have also inherited. Her father worked with metal and wood all his life but was very interested in politics and history; had he had the chance at more schooling, he could have become an engineer.
    Mum herself learned stenography and typing and worked at an architect's office from the age of 17. She was taught English and French at school, and has always been an avid reader. Having children took her out of the work force for 9 years; after that, she always held part time jobs, the last one until her retirement at the local library (which gave me the idea of becoming a Librarian).
    Dad was too lazy to do well at school and, against high expectations from his rather well-to-do family (coming from a long line of medical doctors and dentists), had to make do with an apprenticeship as a printer. All he really wanted was to become a Forester; he loved nature and animals above all, but his father wouldn't have it, and for the rest of his life he was always slightly ashamed of his only son, while his two daughters did somewhat better on the education and job front.
    So, yes, that's my background - firmly middle class, with part working class and part "burgeois". I speak broad Swabian (my local accent) but can also speak proper German, when I feel it is appropriate.

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    1. That really did get you going! It is down to opportunity in the end, which was limited in the past for most people. Now I think opportunity is not limited, but not everyone has the background to be able to take it.
      There is nothing at all in your written blog to indicate that you are not a native English speaker. You write better than many who have not made the best of their opportunities.

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    2. Thank you very much.
      Yes, your post really got me going, and I apologise for the very long comment - didn‘t mean to hog your blog.

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  2. Having been born we are not responsible for our 'tag' of class. That is the first thing that comes to mind but as you say the arguments that go in the family about where we are on the 'scale' of class is annoying.
    So I was adopted into a middle class family and in which the two male members worked hard for a comfortable lifestyle. I consider myself averagely intelligent but through shyness and a need to panic did not pass the 11 plus. Then through illness and moving up to London did not get educated to university standard. Can you believe it I was offered finishing school ;) But already I was in the middle class, made a good marriage, this family is still with me and welcomes my grandchildren as part of their family and often finances the young through their education.
    Factually the whole family has always worked, therefore is working class and that is how I see them. I despise the idea of class and classifying people but I know we all do it.

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    1. You don't choose your parents.
      For me, there are many I seem to have nothing in common with. They have little that interests me. Perhaps it is intellectual snobbery, but it works the other way round and they probably think me boring.

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  3. I don't think we will ever eradicate class, but people move between the classes, according to circumstance, education, interest and intellect. The only class we don't usually break into is the aristocracy, though there are opportunities if you go to the 'right' universities - St Andrews and Edinburgh Universities spring to mind.
    Money is often the key and many people are upwardly mobile and keen on gentrification, but you can't buy class.

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    1. We have changed as our world has become richer, but I still think that where one begins can be hard to leave behind, often in the ways we react to others and their different backgrounds.

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  4. An interesting topic.
    I had a well paid white-collar job, (in IT project management / training), am now reasonably financially comfortable, and own my own detached house so some may consider that I could be identified as middle class. However, I come from a strong working class background. Dad was a manual worker, Mum a housewife and we lived in a council rented house on a rough estate in West London. There was definitely no opportunity to attend University... I had to leave school part way through my A Levels and go out to work to help support the family. Through hard work and self funded further education, I managed to secure responsible employment and save hard to afford what I now enjoy. I am still very much working class at heart and, although I long ago lost my London cockney style accent, don't really fit in with many middle class born acquaintances who are sometimes a little "sniffy" about my background.
    It doesn't bother me too much. My friends like me for who I am and that suits me fine.

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    1. I feel the same, and am sure my origins are soon revealed to those from more middle-class backgrounds, as is soon obvious to me of those from more working-class backgrounds.

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  5. A lot of factors go into making class mobility possible, not least of which are the times we are born in. I was able to move from my "working poor" origins to the middle class because government financial student aid was available to bring university within reach and because women were finally able to escape traditional roles and enter the professions. If I'd been born in my parents' generation, for example (Great Depression, World War 2), none of that would have been possible.

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    1. Definitely the same for me. I would probably have entered one of the building trades, or ordinary office work.

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  6. We still don't own the means of production and sell our labour for wages. I would call myself proletariat or the common man. I am relatively comfortable on paper but poor in pocket and always have to look for work. None of the political parties in England seem to represent the working people any more.

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    1. Maybe not the ordinary working people.
      Your comment got me thinking. Even surgeons, solicitors, and chief executives sell their labour, so I'm not sure how much of an indicator that is. I still think childhood sets class in how we react unconsciously to others.

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  7. It is so complicated. I consider I am working class as my job was working class for 40 years, but it was also quite well paid and had an excellent what you might call, pension scheme. I suppose my upbringing was middle class, people with productive land. It is interesting to ponder but I think class is much less of an issue in Australia.

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    1. I took care to say "England" in this post. I think that how we grow up lays down behaviours which are difficult to change other than superficially.

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  8. I didn't know what most of my friends' dads did for a living. I never thought of myself as any particular class.

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    1. I suppose I only knew because I grew up in a small town where everyone knew what most did.

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  9. I think life has evolved over the last 7 decades and the class differences have become blurry. I was brought up working class definitely. My mother came from a working class family. My father - raised probably more middle class- was a refugee from Nazi Germany and had to do two jobs from early morning till late at night until he could afford a mortgage. I was the first one in the whole family to go to university which I guess then made me more middle class. The same sort of thing for my husband. Now my daughter is a medical doctor and her husband a dentist, so again there has been a further shift upwards. However, classes mean little now and it's what you achieve that is more important.

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    1. Yes, differences are less clear now, but I still find I come across others amongst groups I've joined, or through my children's school, who I think of as "not my kind of people".

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  10. I grew up Yorkshire working class, father foundry worker, mother domestic worker until home with a large family, in a council house.
    But I qualified for merit scholarships all the way through University, so became a professional. I can't claim to be working class when I own two properties outright and have done groundbreaking professional work, supervising teams of proficient workers. I emigrated at 24, because there weren't jobs for people like me, female, highly qualified, but without connections. Never looked back.
    I don't seek out brits where I live because almost the first sentence, in my experience, will be a patronizing comment on my northern accent. As if it mattered on a different continent. To them, it seems to.

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    1. The most able I know from my school days who emigrated, seem to have done much better abroad than they ever would have here, if Facebook is anything to go by.
      My wife who is from the home counties now has an accent that many assume to be northern. I sounded Scottish when I lived there. Your accent must be quite resilient. Well done.

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    2. I know two English sisters who married two American soldiers during WWII who were brothers. They came back to settle in a small town nearby. Interestingly enough, as the years passed, one sister lost every trace of her accent. The other kept her accent until the day she died.

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  11. I understand this. I do. I grew up poor. So did my husband. He grew up poorer than me. He knew what it was like to sometimes go hungry. Now, here we are, and sometimes we marvel over it. After several lay-offs, my husband went into business for himself. We began to buy houses that he either fixed up to sell or to rent. Are we wealthy? Interestingly enough, neither of us would never feel that. We are comfortable, and we are very grateful for that. I think the difference in that was that you had parents who were interested in reading and cultivating their minds. Neither of us had that. In my family, the fact that I was a reader and began to develop new thoughts was considered suspect and 'putting on airs'. Fakery, even. But I think when you grow your mind, think beyond your own horizons, you are more adaptable. Those old horizons can stifle your adaptability. Your parents saw a bigger world and gravitated towards it, which brought their children along too. All these years later, you are so part of that bigger world that your own children cannot understand the world that you came from. My parents never saw that bigger world. When I began to move towards that, I was, in essence, leaving them behind.

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    1. I remember reading your blog post about how your husband decided he was not going to be dependent for work on others again. It must have been a challenge at first.
      I don't think my mum saw wider things possible or thought about it much at all. She remained ordinary, but was very sociable and got on well with everybody. My dad did see other possibilities, indeed he was the first to suggest accountancy. He was of the cohort for which such opportunities were closed unless you were already well connected.

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    2. It's not just that, Tasker. I was a huge reader as a child, and the breaking away happened then. I remember the first time that I stated a counter view out loud. I was soundly slapped in the face, multiple times for it. I was so stubborn, and I don't know where that came from, really. At one point, my dad was bellowing his head off and slapping me repeatedly. He wanted me to take my words back. I wouldn't. There was something very fierce inside of me. It wasn't money that made my world different. It was thinking that did it. I was raised in a house where differing opinions were not tolerated. That was the breaking away. There was a further breaking away when I married a college graduate. There was a geographical breaking away when I physically left. I returned to where I was from when I was 40. My parents really celebrated the fact that "I had always thought I was better than anyone else" and I had failed. I never thought I was better than anyone else. I always knew that I was different though. I felt it acutely. Tim and I married when I was 40. I already did not belong to my parents' world, and hadn't for over 20 years.

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  12. To me this was one of your best ever blogposts Tasker. You examine notions of class intelligently through the lens of your own experience. Growing up in an East Yorkshire village, I remember everyone mixing together. If there was class separation, it was perhaps harder to identify than in a town or city. As you may remember, my father was the headteacher of the village school so on the face of it, some might say that put me firmly in the lower middle class. But my father came from humble farm worker stock in North Yorkshire and my mother was born into a poor, coal mining family in South Yorkshire. My unchanging East Yorkshire accent says a lot about how I see myself and where my sympathies lie.

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    1. I hesitated before posting this, concerned it could sound elitist. Having taught in a comprehensive, I thought you would have a different opinion about grammar schools. I think they were of their era, and perhaps outdated by the time they were phased out. But having worked in HE, think university for all was taken too far.

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  13. Really interesting post (and comments) Taster. Society will always have layers I guess. How one moves or is prevented from moving between layers may be a determining factor for the success of that society as a whole.

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    1. I do think that private education can be counter productive for society. The cleverest reap a lot of benefit, but it can also put the ordinary into positions they would never gain without the contacts and coaching the receive.

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  14. Class is a very unfortunate label on people. You overcame it with the help of your father. Other people were completely destroyed by class.

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    1. That's right. There was an awful waste of talent.

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  15. I suspect my dad's side were middle class but my mum's side were more working class..... post office mistress and military..... we've also got gamekeeper and family who worked in the service of the Kirklees Hall.... for me, my accent is so thick and broad that there's no hiding it...... i've been said to have a good "telephone voice"...... I'm like a stick of Yorkshire rock..... proudly working class which of course does not exclude me from wanting to be educated - i was brought up in a rural location and i think that has more bearing on who i am than anything else does.

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    1. I was reading about kids in the Huddersfield area who had exhausting journeys to school, e.g. by train to Honley from Clayton West. It must have limited their school activities compared with those who had only short journeys.

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  16. I was born in Glasgow and lived the first year-and-a-half of my life in the West End before my family moved to a new town. Had I continued in the West End (just round the corner from Glasgow University) I may have grown up to be considered 'middle-upper class', but moving to a new town was a great equaliser because everyone lived in the same kind of newly-built housing and went to the same kind of schools. As I'm now retired, I don't have a clue as to what class I would be considered part of. I tend not to even think about what class I might be. As for what others may think of me - ah, that could well be a different story.

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    1. We have all changed along with our country, society, and wealth, but after reading and thinking about others' comments, I realise that our first decade or two lays down patterns of behavious that are difficult to alter, such as reactions to authority, which I see as being very much class biased (in terms of 1950s and 1960s class differenced in my case).

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